While the idea of chivalry may seem archaic, its ideals are unisex in essence, and can give your Valentine’s Day celebration a sense of sophistication and passion.
Valentine’s Day is a unique occasion to appreciate your significant other’s love and affection. Make it even more special this year by using the chivalric values in your celebration, such as the virtues of honour, generosity, and respect, which align very closely with the principles of etiquette.
The following suggestions might help you celebrate Valentine’s Day with a difference:
1. Plan a special surprise for your significant other
It might be as easy as preparing a favourite meal which they have not had for a while or perhaps making travel arrangements for a weekend surprise. Your significant other will see how much you care by the thinking and work you put into the gift.
2. Be a gentleman/lady
Gentleness and grace are hallmarks of chivalry. Use polite and respectful language only, and listen carefully to what your significant other has to say.
3. Make the day about your significant other
Do this by doing what they enjoy – whether that is taking a romantic walk, watching a movie, or going out to an elegant restaurant.
4. Be present in the moment
Avoid distractions like phones and work-related tasks on Valentine’s Day. Instead, give your full attention to your significant other, and enjoy your time together.
